15 Surprising Things Guys Find Unattractive

Brainy Dose Presents: 15 Surprising Things Guys Find Unattractive Just like guys, girls do everything in their
power to get the attention of the opposite gender. Surprisingly, some of their actions and behaviors
can actually have the opposite effect! In fact, girls may not even realize that they
do certain things that drive men away, when all they’re really trying to do is draw
guys toward them. Here are some surprising things guys find
unattractive. So, if you’re a girl, you should take note
of the following. Number 1 – Wearing Too Much Makeup Girls may think that loading up on foundation,
concealer, eye shadow, eyeliner, mascara, lipstick, and blush makes them look their
most attractive, but no one really loves the look of layers of makeup that can be scraped
off like frosting on cake… A face that is two shades lighter (or darker)
than the rest of the body, with spidery lashes, goopy lips, and slashes of blush and bronzer,
just isn’t a good look on anyone. Number 2 – Having Overly Styled Hair While girls may spend a lot of time (and money)
trying to perfect their hair styles, it turns out that men aren’t attracted to overly done
and processed hair. In fact, most men are drawn to women with
shiny, full, healthy-looking hair – as opposed to hair that’s been overly styled and manipulated. Specifically, loose curls and wavy hair are
considered more appealing to men than excessively flat-ironed slick-straight hair and complex
hairstyles. Number 3 – Sharp Long Nails Elaborate manicures with extra-long lengths
have become the norm, and fake nails are all the rage – but it shouldn’t surprise anyone
that guys aren’t really fans. While girls may feel powerful and badass with
some sharp talons on their tips, they just look like weapons to guys. Can you imagine a hand with those nails getting
all up in your intimate areas? It’s not a pretty picture. Additionally, long nails can signify a girl
who’s a little too high-maintenance – those claws can make it really challenging to do
everyday things. Number 4 – Wearing Too Much Perfume A lot of marketing goes into making women
feel like they need to buy a certain perfume in order to be sexy and desirable. Since celebrities have entered the industry,
the push has become even stronger. Yeah, we all hate people who smell horrible
and have a bad body odor, but spraying on too much perfume is almost the same. Perfume is created to help express individuality,
and while smelling a little sweet is a good thing, there’s really no need to drown in
the stuff. It turns out that men don’t like it when
a woman wears too much perfume. Number 5 – Being Excessively Confident High self-esteem is a quality that men find
very attractive in women. But it’s important to understand that there’s
a fine line between being confident and being conceited. And while girls should definitely believe
in themselves, be proud of their accomplishments, and be happy about what they have to offer,
they should also keep in mind that showing off is a major turn off. In fact, research has shown that people who
boast about themselves, don’t even recognize the full extent of the negative response they
receive from others! The bottom line is, having a huge ego and
acting like a narcissist is a major turn off. Number 6 – Being A Gossiper It can seem fun for a girl to share with a
guy: all the latest rumors, scandals, and stories involving the lives of friends, family,
and coworkers – but surprisingly, guys find this kind of gossip, a major turn off. As a matter of fact, many people with a poor
self-image, rely on gossip to make themselves feel better about their own lives. They choose to talk about the failures and
scandalous behaviors of others, as a way to give themselves a boost. Giving guys the lowdown on other people’s
sleazy deeds, actually makes girls come across as having low self-esteem. Number 7 – Clingy Behavior As humans, there’s a tug between being autonomous
and bonding with others. But even if you’re in a happy and mutually
supportive relationship, sometimes you may need a little alone time. This can be more the case for some people
than others – but generally, guys want some space to breathe from time to time – and they
find it unattractive when a girl demands that he stay by her side 24/7. Now, wanting time apart is not necessarily
a reflection on how a guy feels about his girl. Of course, every guy likes to feel wanted
– but it can be exhausting when his partner is excessively needy, and can’t find any way
to occupy herself when he’s not around. Number 8 – Attention Seekers Girls, you probably have someone like this
on your Instagram or Facebook, and she drives you nuts – so you can kind of see where guys
are coming from. No one likes a person who is vying for attention
so transparently; and nothing makes a guy back away faster than seeing a woman who is
more interested in “looking cool” than actually enjoying life. Not to mention, this would only make him think
that he’s just another Instagram prop. Number 9 – Starving Themselves When going out, especially on a first date
– girls put a lot of thought into what they pick from the menu. They may be craving a big, juicy steak, or
a burger with fries – but instead, opt for a salad. Maybe they want to look like they take good
care of themselves, or maybe they genuinely are trying to lose weight. Perhaps they’re just budget-conscious, and
don’t want to pick a big ticket item. It’s one thing if this is how a girl regularly
eats and she is satisfied with her meal. But it’s another, if she starts picking fries
from the guy’s plate, or refuses to eat anything at all. This makes a girl seem like she’s not being
authentic. Not to mention, guys really don’t want a girl
to order something she doesn’t even want, only to end up eating half his meal! Number 10 – Badmouthing Their Ex Girls may think that badmouthing their ex
around a new guy is a good idea, but this kind of negative behavior actually makes them
look bad. A girl’s intention may be to show that she’s
totally over her ex, and to reassure the new guy that he has nothing to worry about. However, constantly criticizing ex-partners
isn’t attractive. After all, not only does this type of behavior
make a girl come across as spiteful and immature, but her unrelenting fixation on her ex makes
it seem as though she’s still harboring feelings for him. Number 11 – Being Catty To Other Girls It’s important that you speak your mind and
that you stand up for yourself if you are ever in a situation that makes you feel marginalized. That being said, it can be really unattractive
when a girl seems addicted to drama and goes out of her way to be mean to others. There’s a big difference between acting immaturely
vs emotionally secure in charge of a situation – and guys will definitely take notice. Number 12 – Being A Party Girl Being the kind of girl who is down for whatever,
goes out non-stop, and is always looking for a good time is not the way to attract a guy. In fact, most guys try to stay away from party
girls because these girls have a tendency to act recklessly, make poor decisions, and
put themselves and others in uncomfortable and potentially harmful situations. Guys are certainly interested in girls who
are outgoing, and who like to have fun – but they will draw the line when it comes to girls
who throw caution to the wind and are always looking to party hard. Number 13 -Playing Hard To Get Playing hard to get is an easy way to strike
out with a guy. While it’s true that men are drawn to women
who are assertive individuals, it’s important to recognize that there’s a fine line between
being independent and being unavailable. Playing games can make a girl seem highly
immature and can give off the impression that she’s not yet ready, willing, or interested
in getting to know a guy on a deeper and more meaningful level. And while she may assume that acting detached
and aloof increases her allure, she’s actually coming across as uninterested, flaky, and
just plain annoying. Number 14 – Smoking Particularly for a non-smoker, a huge component
of this turn-off is the obvious health issues that arise – let’s be real: a hacking
smoker’s cough doesn’t exactly scream ‘sexy.’ But there are a lot of physical drawbacks
from this nicotine addiction as well – such as: • Yellow teeth, nails, and fingertips
• stinky breath, hair, and clothes • and premature wrinkles and age spots Sorry smokers, this nasty habit definitely
won’t win you any points. Number 15 – Getting Extreme Makeovers Guys find it unattractive when a girl seems
obsessed with her perceived imperfections. Talking about plastic surgery, cycling through
different styles, and crash dieting in an attempt to lose weight can make girls seem
insecure – which is a real turn-off. If a guy likes a girl for the right reasons,
he’s surely not going to want her to suddenly undergo an extreme makeover, and won’t want
her to reinvent herself in an attempt to win him over. There you have it – these are some things
that men find unattractive in women. What do you think? Girls, which of these things surprised you
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  • Girls, which of these things surprised you the most? AND GUYS…
    Do you agree with this list? Is there anything else you would add?
    >>> Also check out 15 THING GIRLS FIND UNATTRACTIVE – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vn1jC-d9u6o <<<

  • The clingy behavior actually striked me. It's really not my fault if I like hugs.??

  • Just wear simple, comfy and elegant clothes. Always be yourself.

  • What if you haven't done any of these and still guys find you unattractive ?

  • Good for me, I don't wear makeup I think it's disgusting.

  • If you are a girl take note of it lmao I ain't changing myself to look good to guys ?

  • 3:24 that’s a dude

  • Yes I am a girl and I hate when guys like girls for there looked… It ducking sucks when guys leave you cuz u not wharing makeup or not pretty enough…??


  • Tbh some of these sound sexist.. like sometimes us girls do this for our selves and not guys

  • I've found chicks that act openly confident, self-assured and proud are actually not and have bad issues to the point to where I didn't even feel like having sex with them. They thought they were really good in bed and gave the best head but in reality they sucked so bad I've had to fake an orgasm.

  • Big turn offs are the girls who tell you they're bi like it's something guys find irresistible. It makes me think huh she's even confused about the most basic shit and I exit immediately. I think most of them that say they're bi actually aren't but feel compelled say it, it's funny cause they all seem to all like the same thing which is to be controlled and pounded good n hard till they can't take anymore then give em more.

  • Wrong !!wrong !!

  • Omg i didnt know that guys didnt like this guess what?!
    I dont give a sh*t either, guys shouldnt tell me what to do

  • Bold of you to assume I’m straight..

  • Okay, but these are all obvious?

  • I literally do none of those 🙂

  • I never did any of this xD

  • YouTube = The Universal Dating Guide

  • this is all bullshit! just be yourself

  • So I just watched this. And I feel like you guys are just saying woman do these things to make a guy happy when in reality most woman do it just because they want to. I feel like you say if you do these things you will be single. So I wear makeup, dye my hair, wear perfume and I love my stiletto nails. And I do these things because it makes me happy. I would rather be happy then date someone how hates what I wear. This it just stupid. And guys don’t like when girls play hard to get when they do it too. That’s just how I feel.

  • "just like guys girl do everything in their power to get the attention of the OPPOSITE GENDER"
    Wait a minute lesbian/gays-

  • So, why are girls with these traits in relationships, and girls without these traits are still single ??

  • Sharp long nails…hmm weapons well..sorry I wouldn't give up my claws for anyone grrrr ????

  • Might this be how men watch videos like this? Don't mind me but I'm just like meh

  • This shit is ridiculous. I

  • who cares when boy hates what we're doing? as long as we are happy we do it.

  • I love straight hair
    AND I won't let a fkn boy change that.

  • Who went in the comments to see what girls wrote?

  • LOL! So why am I constantly getting recommended videos that defy most of these? I have persistently over time resisted giving in to many of these things, and yet I still constantly get recommended videos about just about everything this video says is unattractive. Like getting long, sharp and painted nails when I like to keep them short and natural. Doing a heavy makeup when I prefer to use as little as possible. Constantly videos about new and better looking hairstyles and the perfect color, videos about plastic surgeries and gazillion fillers. Complaints about looking too heavy even when you are underweight. Videos that are aimed to make you feel insecure about every tiny feature almost so you feel forced in the end to consult a plastic surgeon. Yet after so much insane pressure over many years, I still have not given into most of it. What on earth? That being said, I think one should take care of oneself and make a little effort to look decent, but not change every feature.

  • I have been married for 11 years. If I order a greek salad as I am a vegetarian and my husband a juicy steak burger and fries and he ends up full before finishing his fries, then what on earth is wrong to have a few fries he will not eat? Men really seem to want to find problems when there is no problems. I order a greek salad because I am a vegetarian, not because I want to impress my husband that I eat healthy. If I wanted to impress my husband I would probably have a juicy meat steak burger, honestly. Not every meal you have together after 11 years of marriage is an attempt to impress for heavens sake. And fries or potato boats are also vegetarian, so it is logical that one will eat the left over fries when he is full. If you do not want women to starve themselves, stop accusing them of looking too fat when they are normal weight or even underweight. And allow women to be able to be human, like being allowed to burp silently, when nobody complains when men burps loud. Men can do and say whatever they want without ever getting criticized, while women get criticized even when they do things that are beneficial or simply being human and functioning like one. When men complain about women looking too fat when they are not and then complain if they starve themselves. Same with most things. They complain and push you in one direction and then when you finally give in , they complain about that too. Also there are many other reasons why you make an effort with your appearance other than wanting to get attention from guys. I have deliberately tried for years not to seem like I want to get attention from guys, so much I ended up walking around with holes in my jeans and not caring what I wore or looked like much even when going out. But I decided to just do what feels right and wanting to look a bit decent is never wrong and nothing that should give anyone any ideas that you are trying to get attention. I am so sick of being misunderstood I want to puke and that is even when I have spelled it out in writing too many times. Men have to get over the idea that everything women does is for them. No, it really is not. I do not know any woman that feels that way. That being said, you do not want to scare away your husband or people in general either. I know with 100 percent certainty that if I try a pink spray in my hair once or twice, nobody will be impressed and certainly not guys, I still want to try it anyway.

  • Agree ,also no tats gross ,no body piercing. That just shows they have no self respect. Also a lack of intelligence.

  • Slight eyeliner and lips is fine

  • Curly hairs cute

  • Makeup can still be used but… In a sweet, cute way <3! You don’t need to look edgy like most girls these days, in fact, most guys will go for the more natural, kind and sweet looking girl, not the edgy fake acrylic nails, short, short croptop, tight, tight, butt shorts—I said most guys, not all— A little blush, light lipstick, some mascara and accessories is nearly enough! For clothing, what is wrong with a cute blouse, a cute, soft, fluttery skirt, a T-shirt….
    Girls, there’s no need to dress like a hoe, act edgy and use edgy makeup! Trust me, USUALLY, most guys will go for the cute, sweet, natural looking girl! Remember this girls! xx
    (Post script—Don’t start yelling at me with all that sexism shit. I am a girl myself so don’t yell at me for “Being unfair to women” and “Being sexist!”. I’m just trying to give a little advice.
    – peace ✌?

  • this video: simply guys don't like girls?

  • Why must girls reject the good stuff for a salad?? I've seen this happen multiple times, lemme just say sis, that ain't how I roll, amma get that big ass ? and ?


  • this video is full of clownery.

  • I want a man to get attracted towards me as soon as possible

  • My goodness that's a lot to remember all ik, im wild n I'm happy ✌?? ?? n not always crazy to impress the opposite… after all i ❤️ myself!

  • In my opinión if the guy likes the girl then he’s gonna accept u the way u are ??‍♀️

  • 1:06 those brows ?

  • I’ll wake up and throw on mascara and smooth watermelon chapstick. My guy likes my freckles so I only wear concealer and heavier makeup for events and parties.

  • 6:15 Omg her eyebrow

  • Lol are you saying all girls do makeup for guys attention and dress up for guys attention

  • Smoking is unattractive..because of wrinkles and yellow teeth..? Hmm. I'm thinking because he will a lot more likely get cancer or something, and then I might lose him. Or I might get cancer because of passive smoking.

  • The first thing is self love☺️if I do love myself 100%☺️??yours is a bonus❤️??thanks

  • I would add overprotective and selfish

  • Can I not take notes even though I'm a girl? ????

  • 1 my hair is naturally straight and 2 I think that I’m a little clingy because my crush who has been waiting for me for 5 years since I couldn’t date told me that I was extremely clingy which I don’t try to be clingy at all

  • girl; do you want to be with me forever
    boy; no
    girl; do you even like me
    boy; no
    girl; would you cry if I walked away
    boy; no
    she heard enough she was hurt…..she walked away with tears in her eyes
    the boy grabbed her arm
    boy; your not pretty…you are beautiful
    boy; I don't want to be with you forever..i need to be with you forever
    boy; I don't like you… I love you
    boy; I wouldn't cry if you walked away.. I would die if you walked away
    boy whispers; plz stay with me
    girl; I will
    *tonight your true love will realize they love you
    *something good will happen to you between 1-4pm
    *tomorrow it could be anywhere
    *get ready for the shock of your life
    * if you don't pass this to 5 more videos ..you'll have bad luck in relationships for the next 10 years/

  • HELP. I don't know what i'm doing wrong.

  • Youtube:07 cliny behaver…..My loverboy doesn't mind iam clining Also what happens if you have an eating disorder?

  • P


  • Who said girls do any of things to attract the opposite sex?

    Maybe we just enjoy doing some of these things for ourselves..

  • Okay buh honestly I've a boyfriend a the gossiper part? Oh nyeh we definitely do that half of the time istg lmaoo

  • "Boys are more attracted to healthy hair"

    Me: Hehehehe!

  • This is plain bullshit… I don't have any of those 'unattractive' traits and I'm still single. You wanna know what the real problem is? I'm ugly af and that is the only unattractive thing about me?

  • Now i know hahaha??? i am wearing too much perfume thats why he left me hahaha jk?

  • Umm not all boys and girls are the same just sayin

  • So its hot if we hate ourselves?

  • Im clingy because I've been hurt so many times and I can't afford to loose someone again… so you can fuck off. If a guy really likes you he would want you to be "clingy"

  • Keep it simple. If you can smell someone’s perfume from more than 6” away, it’s too much.
    Men say they like the natural look, but that look often takes more time and makeup to achieve Same thing with loose curls and waves. Those take quite a bit of effort.

  • Glad we all agree this is bs lmao

  • Hmm
    Let's think…
    Someones looks? Every boy judges girls by their fucking looks and it makes me feel shit about myself.

  • But ive noticed some guys turn their neck when they saw wowen with make up and wearing sexy clothes.

  • Most women actually wears makeup for themselves.

  • i actually thought bad mouthing Ex is a good idea… but it's not so thank you.. ?

  • I had to laugh at #13. Maybe she's not "playing." Maybe she IS unavailable (or "flaky" and "annoying" if that makes you feel better), but the truth will be hard to see with your ego in the way.

  • Is there an age where men actually feel this way? Because I've yet to meet one.

  • this video is about guys opinions in case you want to know what many men find attractive and unattractive. the video is not telling women what to do and wear. men should be allowed to let us know what they think without being put down, and tbh I really appreciate the honesty.
    Also in the beginning of the video they say that the video is for ladies who are trying to get a guy… so if you are not interested in that info why are you here? also the same channel has a video about the girls 15 things so why don't you go over there and tell them to "stop telling guys what to do"


  • Too much perfume ….?

  • I dont do any of these and still am single ??

  • mmmm i do my nails because i looked like a bad bitch not cause i wanna attract man…

  • Any Female on here that says things like, "Ima DO what I please" or "Oh yeah, But Guys do this"….I guess your not ready to Act like a mature women yet…Your stuck in that little Brat stage.

  • This is gonna sound weird I’m a girl and I hate hate hate hate the smell of perfume girls with you but I Really like the smell of men’s perfume or deodorant or whatever you call it I don’t know why and I don’t know why again I just do I don’t I don’t wear perfume because of that reason anyway glad you read my comment if you did anyway thank you X

  • Okay I know I have just done another comment underneath well at least that’s what I think you can see at 5:59 I see a girl ordering salad wants to order a burger what does that burger order right now I’m not even kidding I ward stuff my face with that burger 20 burgers 30 fricking burgers. Okay and I’m over exaggerating fine I am I wouldn’t stuff my face with it but I would eat it I’m not 13 that’s just very greedy but do you get my point

  • Then I must be the perfect girl, cuz Im none of what he said guys dislike and all of the detached, low maintenance, little to no make up, natural hair, nails, etc, kind of girl who hates games and drama, and likes time to myself but is also a homebody. Either that or Im just a boring plain jane. I think Im somewhere in the middle. In a good way.

  • This video applies to certain cultures.

  • I think it's funny that person is saying it's unattractive for women to be insecure, yet this person makes a video of what makes women unattractive

  • Girls think that guys will find it unattractive and they think about budgets on their first date and they feel that if they order too much then the guy might think she is selfish. I know this from when i was in high school.

  • “Overly confident” -Turns men off

    I think this was made back in the 90s when men wanted women to sit stay quiet and be meek

  • The amount of times he said ”there’s a fine line…”

  • Do you guys even know how much time we take to make ourselves look good enough for them! Makeup takes like an hour because girls don't think it's perfect enough for you! You need to appreciate the time it takes for girls to look "perfect" they take their time every single time they wear makeup! So appreciate yo girl

  • thank god I never did any of these stupid things

  • FUCK I’ve being doing it wrong the whole time !

  • I am a girl and if u want a guy that is good just be urself cause u dont want a guy to tale adavantige

  • My boyfriend love my straight dark hair

  • Really on point. I have stopped liking this guy. i have confessed on him and found out i was being to clingy and assumed he would like me back. I suck.

  • I am my own man

  • That was good

  • Everything is bout true in this video. I got a girlfriend but she really doesn't do none of these things but just maybe like 2 that's it. But the girls I used too talk too or the girls nowadays especially in social media does this it's really frustrating but not everyone is like this tho so that's a good thing


  • UGH i hate insecure and over-jealous girls.
    girls that put ALOT i mean ALOT of make-up.
    also i hate girls with Looooong ass fake fingernails Ugh such a major turn off for me Lol

  • So how much do you want your crush to like you back


  • Bitch is THE TURNOFF!!!

  • I’m a girl who likes girls. Why am I here???

  • Long nails is like a weapon to men lol!

  • Love me for who I am.thats it.

  • 5:51 I hate this one. Girls have really low self esteem. We are insecure. Girls feel pressured to be skinny and ‘starving ourseleves’ is probably because we feel alone and we just want to be skinny. It’s get through your head. Girls don’t ‘starve ourselves” for attention.

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